Even during a typical Bachelor season, hometowns week is about as intense as it gets. You’re meeting skeptical family members, the big feelings are coming out, and generally, this is when everyone who has previously withheld any expectations suddenly gets their hopes up all the way to the rafters. Our first senior leading man, Gerry Turner, has played a good game so far in ABC’s The Golden Bachelor. But this week, he finally made the most basic Bachelor blunder possible—admitting he’s in love with not one, not two, but three women.
The real mistake, however, was telling two of them that to their face—a time-honored gaffe that Ben Higgins and plenty of other Bachelors after him know all too well.
This week, Gerry has narrowed us down to three women: the gentle, New Jersey-bred financial services professional Theresa, dancer and fitness instructor Leslie (who once dated Prince), and the Washingtonian horseback rider, motorcycle enthusiast, and general “fun-monger” Faith. As we come to find out, he’s crazy about all three of them—and rightfully so. But when it comes time to say goodbye to one of them, he leaves us on a cliffhanger, breaking down in tears and moaning (relatably), “I feel like I’m going to throw up.”