“You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won’t happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say ‘I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.” Joel Osteen

ou’ve been having nightmares on it. Day after day, week after week, you suffer. Let it be anything, but you suffer. Why are you suffering? Is it your friend’s fault?

Or is it that neighbor who you can’t stand? Or is it your dad who you think is never on your team? Are they the reason you are suffering?

Is it always your nature to blame it on others or is it just this time that you think it’s someone else who is making you suffer? Accept it; believe it or not, it’s you who chose to suffer. It’s you who is hanging on to jealousy, hatred or hurt. And mind you it has done no good up to now other than giving you nightmares day after day.

Everyone has a reason to do whatever it is that they are doing. Either way there’s always a reason even though nowadays people tend to say “I don’t know” as an answer. They chose to do it at some point in their life because they thought they were correct.

It’s for their self-satisfaction, happiness or just to spend their time or it was important to them, it was a tough choice but they did it anyway. So it’s done. It’s over.

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hatred; only love can do that”
Martin Luther King Jr.

Learn to forgive. Let it be yourself, let it be someone else. Ultimately it’s you who should be in the priority list of your life. If you spend every second in your life suffering because of jealousy, hatred or hurt, it’s you who has chosen to destroy yourself. End what he or she began, you end it for yourself. Sympathize and give love. Everyone makes mistakes. Nobody is perfect.

Don’t go chasing the past, finding reasons and clues to solve the mystery that would end up hurting you. You make faults, and you correct them moving forward. Other people make mistakes; they learn and correct themselves, if they don’t let nature and its mystery handle justice.

You put your happiness as the priority, forgive and move on. Let them handle their guilt and let them forgive themselves and everyone should move forward in life. Stop those never ending nightmares which make you weaker day by day.

Take your foot off the brakes on your life, let it move forward. Start your own process of healing. Give yourself time and love yourself. Help yourself to stop suffering and start living.

“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying, when there seemed to be no hope at all”
Dale Carnegie